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One of the joys of working as a life coach is that during a coaching relationship w,e can talk about “anything”. This uncensored openness fosters a eedom of expression that cannot be found in too many other places. The free dialogue that we enjoy often underpins the effectiveness of our life coaching work. Freedom of expression is the foundation of finding changes, solutions a,nd new ways of being in the world. It helps you learn how to live life fully without being complacent.

The subject of sex often enters our working conversation. Sex is a fundamental human experience and yet many have a frustrated relationship to it. Often our inability to talk freely about sex is often half the problem.

Sex often appears amidst discussions about infidelity, not getting any or when exploring ways that life could be much better. In many cases just having the space to own up to the importance of sex in your life is all that is needed.

I can help you attune to life-force flow in your system and to reconnect with the instinctual nature within yourself. Perhaps you feel that there is some kind of dimension is not expressed in your life and this is what you want to connect to. Maybe you are craving meaningful intimate exchange. But all you see are barriers.

Is your being searching for something? -- inner beauty, love, universal connection. Is something missing? Healthy, harmonious, beautiful connection.

I can help you reconnect with your own essence, reconnect with your nature and other human beings.

While I am not a sex therapist, I have been studying for a Masters in Human Sexuality for the past four years. This backdrop provides a safe space to explore the way that sex could be enhanced in your life. I am passionate about men stepping into their healthy masculinity and women being in their fullest sexual power. I will always honour your trust.

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If you could...

  • Capitalize on your natural talents... Would you?   
  • Make entrepreneurship your passion and purpose... Would you?    
  • Maximise your potential... Would you?    
  • Enjoy ultimate support to realise your entrepreneurial ambitions... Would you?

What kind of a person wouldn't?

entrepreneur coachMy empowering work with entrepreneurs draws deeply from over 20 years International entrepreneurial experience. My entrepreneur coaching makes use of powerful coaching techniques set against a backdrop of my own varied business and entrepreneurial experiences. Over the years I have worked with hundreds of people and many of them are either sesoned or fledgeling entrepreneurs. Many clients make use of a career change to go out and set up their own business. Entrepreneurship has many variables, I have worked on many varied assignments. Whether you are a mum setting up a home business or a property investment millionaire looking for a confident I can probably help. My work is particularly effective with start-ups and spin-outs.

Since the age of 16 I have been successfully growing entrepreneurial companies in several diverse fields. I have created and grown exciting technology and media companies. I spent extensive time in both the United States and the UK wielding my leadership skills, creativity, passion, pioneering spirit and razor mind. I have been involved in many internet and interactive publishing initiatives that have sought to create wealth in an eclectic array of industry sectors, including movies, edutainment, stock option trading, medical, software, health, security, books, construction, adventure games, personal finance, insurance and virtual reality. During the dotcom moment, I built an e-commerce solutions company over 20 months to become one of Europe's leading Internet integrators which resulted in a significant stock exchange floatation. I continue to be active with several entrepreneurial driven companies.

Today is a great day to uncover what You really want from your working life and to embark on an impactful future. Being an entrepreneur is a great way to get control of your life and make sure that you are doing exactly what YOU want to do with your life. 

Entrepreneurial Coaching

photo by RochelleWhen I work with a new client I like to establish "What are your objectives with the coaching relationship?" Honestly establishing what you want and what is important to you, these may be personal or business objectives. We then look at "What get's in the way?".  We understand "What we can count on you for?", what you bring to the table.  Finally we determine how you would like to be different after eight weeks of working together. This framework forms the basis of a powerful relationship. My entrepreneur coaching skills are utterly unique, melding strong technical, marketing, corporate finance and strategic leadership experience. 

If you are an entrepreneur, don’t try and figure out what you think people want, and then create a product to fill that niche. That’s always going to make you feel compromised. Instead, discover what you’re deeply passionate about. What is the contribution you most want to make? Find a way to articulate that with energy and sing it loud from the rooftops. And then trust that the tribe you’re meant to reach will naturally gather around you. The world needs spiritually driven entrepreneurs right now.

In some cases an already successfull entrepreneur might make use of a coaching relationship as a confident. It is often lonely as an independent at the top, I can be used as an excellent sounding board to help you align your personal life and spiritual life  with your professional life. 

If you are already at the helm of your business, considering freelancing, starting up or branching out, I can help you in the following ways:

  • Entrepreneurial passion, purpose and performance
  • Maximise potential while being free of doubt or inhibition
  • Expansive creative thinking
  • Executive Mentor and Mentoring
  • Transformational strategy, goals, tactics
  • Becoming Self Employed
  • Business Startup
  • Something holding you back?
  • Support for Human Resources Teams
  • Adopt a no-fail perspective
  • On a plateau?  Burnt out? Change needed?
  • Leadership
  • Work - Life balance
  • Entrepreneurship and vocational calling
  • Intuition Spirituality
  • Fed up with the beast you have created!

I believe You excel when your work is most aligned with your values, purpose and passion. I particularly advocate working holistically with entrepreneurs. My coaching work is also complimented by working with you in a corporate advisory capacity with specific domain expertise in the technology, media, software, film and creative industries.

As a Life Coach I can help you tune into a furnace that is your sense of purpose and contribution, get in touch today!  A unified sense of who you are that can empower you go to any height.  Ready for lift off? 

Take up the challenge of confident ongoing change. Using a safe and supportive foundation of trust, freedom of expression and commitment, I always work to help you explore your inner being, to regain balance in your personal and working life and to align with your true values and fullest potential. Using a stimulating face-to-face, phone support and email program customised to fit your current personal development needs, my coaching focuses on your inner guidance, purpose, skills, beliefs, techniques and processes necessary to take you into a great future.

I partner with intelligent, successful people who want to excel at their passion, gifts and unique talents in a way that brings them success, happiness and balance. Do what you always did and you will get what you always got! Lets change the world.

Life Coaching -- What is your relationship to Success and Failure?

If you could... 

  • Never fail... Would you?  
  • Understand what it means to be successful... Would you?
  • Remove your fear of failure or fear of success... Would you?
  • Enjoy ultimate support in making life changes... Would you?

What kind of a person wouldn't?

The forces of success and failure often affect our ways in the world. I offer success coaching to individuals as well as providing motivational talks to groups/audiences.

Some ponderances for you... So is success what happens when you do not fail?  What if you could not fail, would you be successful?  What if we defined success in terms of not failing?  To do that lets explore the concept of failing.  

Failure is a label that is often identified during life coaching relationships often in the form of...

I feel like a failure.  

I am successful, but I am frightened of failing. 

I cannot do that, what if I fail?

failureThe power this word has over many people’s sense of happiness is extraordinary. When our coaching work reveals a strong identification with the word, together we will quickly develop a new concept of failure that removes its stultifying power. To redefine your relationship to the word failure, it is important to understand what success means -- uniquely to you. Because once you stop relating negatively to failure and you have a clear idea of your own definition of success, you can get on with your life. You'll kick yourself for not getting started sooner.  

Since childhood you have been bombarded with powerful popular culture messages that define failure as being poor, anonymous, powerless, unpopular, or physically unattractive; indeed your parents may have propagated this spell, ingraining negative attitudes about how you relate to the world.  Failures are teased, bullied, and rejected – both by other people and themselves!  This media definition of failure has resulted in many of us being enslaved to a culture of fear and avoidance of failure.  Failure is one of the "dirtiest" words in our society and most people believe that "success is equal to right and therefore equal to good, while failure is equal to wrong and, as such, is bad.” Did your life get stuck on the starting line through fear of failure?  Did you fail because you bought into popular culture's definition of success, for example, being overly concerned with popularity or appearance? What an unnecessary burden to carry. 

Photo by AnnieGreenSpringsI like to explore this territory using two F words.  Big Failure and little failure.  To me Big Failure is what we do when we Fail ourselves, while its lame little cousin, failure, is what we do when we fail to meet the externally mandated, internally adopted expectations of our culture. In life coaching we will learn about both. We look at failure in terms of how to "fail well" using The Law of Feedback which states: there is no failure; there is only feedback. Successful people look at mistakes as outcomes or results to learn by, not as failure. Unsuccessful people look at mistakes as permanent and personal.  And going deeper, we will also build an understanding that the most painful place to “Fail” is not living in accordance with your core values.  Effectively failing yourSelf, by not being true to yourSelf.  Do you know what your values are?  When we set the foundation for our coaching work we always undertake an in depth revelation of your values using clever techniques that derives a full-proof list.  This list helps us evolve your unique sense of what it means to succeed. ... You can find peace in that knowingness.

It is the fear of failure, not failure that cripples people. So which flavour of failure have you decided to hang your bag of excuses on?  Fear of failure? Failure? Fear of success? Or all of them?  Understanding how failure sabotages your perception of what is possible for you in life requires effort; effort that can be rewarded by getting you unstuck and making a difference to your lot, and crucially your relationship to your lot.

Success (ie. not failure!) isn't some unattainable, elusive thing. It's there for the taking. All you have to do define success in your own terms and then take the necessary, appropriate steps. Successful people overcome their fear of failure while fear incapacitates unsuccessful people. Most people self-limit themselves. Most people do not achieve a fraction of what they are capable of achieving because they are afraid to try — because they are afraid they will fail.

Good judgement comes from experience, experience comes from mistakes, mistakes come from bad judgement.

When we live from fear, we limit ourselves in our lives and what is possible, not only do we become afraid of all the negative things in our lives but also the positive. The opposite side of fear is excitement where we live in a place of positivity and positive expectations of what will happen.

 


Self Help ... Try This...

Get in touch with your values.  Define Success in your own terms… Understand this… very subtly you are succeeding when you are living life in a way that honors your values and is true to yourSelf.  However if you are still caught up in your adopted concept of failure try the following…

If you feel like you are failing (as defined by the popular culture that you subscribe to)… Tell someone all about it and then together use your imagination.  In order to reduce stress and make you feel better, it is vital to reduce the fear of the problem by bringing everything out in the open, gaining perspective — and not only the facts of the problem, but also your feelings about it.

Imagine overcoming the problem and falling short of the goal (failing); then figure what the worst consequences would be and what could be done about them. Thus, if the worst does happen, you're at least prepared and if it doesn't, then you're relieved and probably pleasantly surprised…. Go celebrate!



We all have the power to turn ‘failure’ situations around just in the way we view them.

Perhaps most powerful of all - take the chance and face it. There is nothing better to reduce the fear of failure than having it happen and knowing what it can and can't do. We must face it, live through it and prove to ourselves we can survive it and recover. Many positive things can only be learned by making mistakes and failing. Failing things can be seen as good in two ways: it teaches us valuable lessons (how to change things so we don’t repeat the same mistakes), and it also makes us grow stronger by adding to our repertoire of experiences and resources of strength.  Act, learn, refine, act, learn, refine … That’s called living.   
 
Have you ever noticed a child with 'fear of failure'? And those adults who seem to be free of any fear of failure - what are they like?

Overcoming your fear of failure will help you be more forgiving towards yourself, help you develop a boundless curiosity and enjoyment of new challenges, and help you change the way you approach success to make it more fun and much less daunting.  To overcome your relationship to the F word it is important to learn the right skills and have adequate motivation to use those skills in your life situation. My success coaching generally has the following approach...

  • Understanding what failure and success means to you
  • Understanding how your concept of failure sabotages you
  • Changing your relationship to the label of failure
  • Defining your own definition of success, and understanding how you can Fail yourSelf.
  • The new you! Making positive changes in your life to harness a no-failure lifestyle.  

Get in touch if you are interested in learning more about creating a life coaching relationship, perhaps with a focus on creating a no-failure lifestyle. 

  • If you could... 
  • Express yourself fully... Would you?  
  • Neutralise your hurdles... Would you?
  • Unleash your fullest potential... Would you?
  • Enjoy ultimate support to design your Great Life... Would you?

What kind of a CEO or Leader wouldn't?

ceoI believe that true leadership springs from deep inside when we embody conviction and alignment with our current unique Life purpose. As an experienced leader and CEO and as an entrepreneurial mentor through my company WOW, I have discovered enormous personal power that is there for the giving when we so choose. 

Self-belief is your secret ally. You've just got to be able to turn it on, boost it when you need it most. It’s part of the armoury of all people who achieve great things. To win at anything in life, your greatest battle is with yourself. Your most powerful enemy is within. Your greatest ally is there also. The person who has the weapon to make you win or lose is you. Your weapon is your mind. Your mental approach makes you strong or weak, tough or flabby. Conquering yourself is the ultimate challenge. Great self-believers have the edge. They carry within a formidable advantage over the average person. They know how to dig deep and muster additional resources and back-up when called to. They never lose. They always live to fight another day. They always come through. Even if you identify yourself as one of the great self-believers, you’ll still be eager to run a check on your current levels to ensure you’re in peak condition!  As a Life Coach and experienced self-believing leader, I can help you in the following ways:

Development Mentoring

  • Lonely at the Top dialogue
  • Mentoring
  • Express yourself fully
  • Who are You?
  • What are your strengths and weaknesses?
  • Fully deploy your strengths and weaknesses
  • What do You want?
  • Why do you want it?
  • How do you communicate what you want?
  • Gain cooperation and support
  • Know how to achieve your goals
  • Unleash your fullest potential by understanding Your Self and your World
  • Get Passionate
  • Get Purposeful
  • Get Peaceful
  • Manage Your challenges
  • Career and lifestyle change
  • Mid-life Crisis
  • Learn from your life experience, especially the traumas
  • Clarify your aspirations
  • Facilitate your strengths and abilities
  • Produce the desired results
  • Identify blind spots
  • Powerfully use intuition in your work
  • Balance

Skills Mentoring

  • Building relationships
  • Inspire excellence in others
  • Mastery of a wide range of skills
  • Introducing new processes
  • Self confidence
  • Communication skills - shared-vision, conviction, passion and goals
  • Utilizing authority
  • Delegating
  • Facilitating teamwork
  • Self Awareness
  • Flexibility
  • Initiative
  • Creativity
  • Culture - respect, trust
  • Risk management

Photo by www.lumaxart.comI relish the opportunity to exert a powerful positive influence on your leadership style that can potentially touch hundreds of others who are affected by our your leadership.

Take up the challenge of confident ongoing leadership growth. Using a safe and supportive foundation of trust, freedom of expression and commitment, I always work to help you explore your inner being, to regain balance in your personal and working life and to align with your true values and fullest potential. Using a stimulating one-to-one, phone support and email program customised to fit your current personal development needs, my coaching focuses on your inner guidance, purpose, skills, beliefs, techniques and processes necessary to take you into a great future.

I partner with intelligent, successful people who want to excel at their passion, gifts and unique talents in a way that brings them success, happiness and balance. Do what you always did and you will get what you always got!

If you could... 

  • Express yourself fully... Would you?  
  • Neutralise your hurdles... Would you?
  • Unleash your fullest potential... Would you?
  • Enjoy ultimate support to design your Great Life... Would you?

What kind of a CEO or Leader wouldn't?

ceoWe are living in an era of change. The recent global economic crisis has given us a revelation: The old power structures based on hierarchy and top-down leadership don’t work anymore. Companies that want to survive long-term need to change their approach – focus on empowering individuals and creating business through interrelationships. In this era of change, those who choose to innovate along the lines of these fundamental shifts will be creators and pioneers of the future systems. My approach helps you take advantage of this historical moment to revolutionize how you lead. I can help you understand and implement new leadership styles toward effective, powerful change.

Live passionately in your career. If you are an entrepreneur, don’t try and figure out what you think people want, and then create a product to fill that niche. That’s always going to make you feel compromised. Instead, discover what you’re deeply passionate about. What is the contribution you most want to make? Find a way to articulate that with energy and sing it loud from the rooftops. And then trust that the tribe you’re meant to reach will naturally gather around you.

I believe that true leadership springs from deep inside when we embody conviction and alignment with our current unique Life purpose. As an experienced leader and CEO and as an entrepreneurial mentor through my company WOW, I have discovered enormous personal power that is there for the giving when we so choose. 

Self-belief is your secret ally. You've just got to be able to turn it on, boost it when you need it most. It’s part of the armoury of all people who achieve great things. To win at anything in life, your greatest battle is with yourself. Your most powerful enemy is within. Your greatest ally is there also. The person who has the weapon to make you win or lose is you. Your weapon is your mind. Your mental approach makes you strong or weak, tough or flabby. Conquering yourself is the ultimate challenge. Great self-believers have the edge. They carry within a formidable advantage over the average person. They know how to dig deep and muster additional resources and back-up when called to. They never lose. They always live to fight another day. They always come through. Even if you identify yourself as one of the great self-believers, you’ll still be eager to run a check on your current levels to ensure you’re in peak condition!  As a Life Coach and experienced self-believing leader, I can help you in the following ways:

Development Coaching

  • Lonely at the Top dialogue
  • Mentoring
  • Express yourself fully
  • Who are You?
  • What are your strengths and weaknesses?
  • Fully deploy your strengths and weaknesses
  • What do You want?
  • Why do you want it?
  • How do you communicate what you want?
  • Gain cooperation and support
  • Know how to achieve your goals
  • Unleash your fullest potential by understanding Your Self and your World
  • Get Passionate
  • Get Purposeful
  • Get Peaceful
  • Manage Your challenges
  • Career and lifestyle change
  • Mid-life Crisis
  • Learn from your life experience, especially the traumas
  • Clarify your aspirations
  • Facilitate your strengths and abilities
  • Produce the desired results
  • Identify blind spots
  • Powerfully use intuition in your work
  • Balance

Skills Coaching

  • Building relationships
  • Inspire excellence in others
  • Mastery of a wide range of skills
  • Introducing new processes
  • Self confidence
  • Communication skills - shared-vision, conviction, passion and goals
  • Utilizing authority
  • Delegating
  • Facilitating teamwork
  • Self Awareness
  • Flexibility
  • Initiative
  • Creativity
  • Culture - respect, trust
  • Risk management

Photo by jurvetsonI relish the opportunity to exert a powerful positive influence on your leadership style that can potentially touch hundreds of others who are affected by our your leadership.

Take up the challenge of confident ongoing leadership growth. Using a safe and supportive foundation of trust, freedom of expression and commitment, I always work to help you explore your inner being, to regain balance in your personal and working life and to align with your true values and fullest potential. Using a stimulating one-to-one, phone support and email program customised to fit your current personal development needs, my coaching focuses on your inner guidance, purpose, skills, beliefs, techniques and processes necessary to take you into a great future.

I partner with intelligent, successful people who want to excel at their passion, gifts and unique talents in a way that brings them success, happiness and balance. Do what you always did and you will get what you always got!

 

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