Dating tips for Men - Who else wants a Girlfriend?

Dating Advice for Men 

Life Coaching is always about taking action. You could start your dating efforts right now by signing up to one of these excellent online dating services that my clients have used to attract great dates. Then take a look at my tips and other resources to help you on your self-help dating journey.

Dating Success Tips  

1. Go out and meet women -- That may sound obvious. I have learned from clients that the primary reason men aren't dating women is, well, because they aren't dating women! It is a numbers game. It is virtually impossible to meet a potential girlfriend if you don't put yourself out there. There are often reasons why men clam up. Perhaps its an armoured heart from a past break up, shyness, or a lack of confidence. The trick is to turn the nerves into EXCITEMENT. You've got to get out there. As well as life coaching, there are many books, videos and course that can help you get out there AND ACTUALLY MEETING WOMEN.
2. Flirt Naturally -- There are many courses and systems to teach you to flirt. I believe the trick is to JUST BE YOU. Authentically YOU. If you overthink your flirting style, or try your hand at being a pick-up-artist, then the only people you will attract are people who are attracted to players. If you are serious about attracting in a woman who can share the ride of life with you, love you unconditionally and have years of juicy fun together then it probably won't start with a cheap pick up line. Flirt with humour, eye contact and being natural.
3. Meeting ladies online can be fun, but get your ass out there and MEET THEM FOR REAL -- The best way to form a relationship is to ease in gently, the wonderful online world we live in today gives us many opportunities to search, contact, flirt, chat, email, video call etc. But can I tell you a secret, one of the biggest complaints I hear from my Women clients about their dating efforts is that TOO MANY MEN HIDE BEHIND THEIR ONLINE PERSONALITY. Many women complain that it is hard to meet men in person, and that is so often their preference. Men use the online shield as a social crutch. Their second complaint is that when they do meet up, the men are "a bit useless". MEN, don't be a weeny. Be a powerful man, get out there and practice meeting women for real. Treat them like a friend, turn it into a game. It gets easier the more that you do it. 
4. Take a shower, do your hair, put on your best stitches -- Your first impression must be your best self. First Impressions are crucial. I've had female clients tell me about their STINKY first dates. yik. So man, look your best, but BE YOURSELF. Wear clothes that you feel great in. So yes, we want you to look great, but the best first impressions are going to shine through by being NATURAL, confident and honest... even if your honesty is to share your jitters.... done the right way even that can be cute. Experiment, look great, smell great, have some fun.
5. Choose a great dating venue -- Focus on your ability to be comfortable in your element. If you focus on "impressing her" she will quickly suss out your fake-ness. Don't choose a venue that is too noisy, or too overcrowded. Remember you guys need to talk and get to know each other. Comfort is the key. Get creative with venues and timings. Picnics, galleries, strolls in the park or a coffee are all great dating launch pads.
6. Intimacy is about GETTING TO KNOW YOUR WOMAN deeply -- So ask questions, tons of them. Have plenty of questions up your sleeve. Just keep getting to know her. Your ability to ask questions can help you cut through your shyness. BUT... keep the questions light and easy, and use her answers to construct further questions. Getting to know your woman is one of the great joys of life. It also allows you both to work out if there common territory that can allow your sizzle to grow. Oh and one more tip.... Listen to her answers!
7. Easy Tiger -- that pelvis brain of yours that is planning to get married and start a big family before midnight should be ignored (for now). The trick is to strike the right balance with showing restrained/teasing interest and not coming on too strong. Confidence does not mean arrogance. Asking loads of questions does not mean nosing your way into the more shadowy parts of her world. Your gentlemanly politeness works beautifully, but you don't want to be so restrained that you miss the proze of a second date. So its all about BALANCE and not coming on too strong. She is the cat, and you control the play-ball. If you want to see her again then ask for a second date! If she says no... then NEXT!
8. Leave your phone in your pocket -- She is the most important focus of your attention for the next few hours.