Happy Campers...

"Thank you so much for all our sessions which has helped me prise open my mind and see that there's creativity alive in me." Solicitor Administrator, EC1 
"This has been a reaffirming process for me which has given me the confidence to make the decisions and changes I need to make to better align my life with my values and aspirations." Estate Agent Partner, Herts.  
"When we first met I seemed to have lost the direction in life and didn't know which way to take. I felt useless and dull. Lee showed me how to find out what really matters to ME and we gave my life a new direction. Yes I can!" Mum returning to work, West London  
"Thank You! Our last session was so personalised for me, I really appreciate it. I am so inspired to change" Actress, Herts. 

"Working with Lee is an amazing experience for me. The work creates a space to explore myself that I couldn't create with my friends or my family. As an entrepreneur I was often totally stressed out, with the help of Lee's coaching I now deal with the same challenges relaxed and at ease. Further, I got a clearer sense of purpose, my relationships improved and my life has a new depth that made me realise I have only been living at the surface of my potential before. I am thrilled to continue this journey." 26yo, Chelsea  
"Thank you for doing what 3 years of analysis and 30 years of how-to books failed to achieve. You truly are a gifted life coach, thank you for doing what you do." Property Investment Millionaire, Hampstead  

"I engaged Lee initially to tackle a specific matter, but quickly our work together moved into many other aspects of my life, surprising me at how much more there can be to what I thought was an already happy life. Lee has challenged me, our sessions have been inspiring and fun, and I have really got a lot out of the life coaching by committing to action between our sessions. Its actually tough when life is already busy, but has been very worthwhile, with lots more to come..." CFO, Marylebone 

"Thanks again. Really enjoyed today's session and value your support and guidance" Writer, SE London 
"I first started working with Lee to address a general lack of purpose and direction in my life, particularly focussing on my career and relationship. Our work together has given me a fresh perspective and helped to kick-start some long overdue changes as well as learning a great deal about myself and my ability to achieve the things that I want out of life. This work has been the first step in an already exciting journey of self development." Investment Banker, Clapham 
"It's amazing, it's like having a massage from the inside-out." Secondary School Headmaster, Ealing 
"Hope I haven't been a difficult client...  As I said I do feel as though I've gained something from our work together, perhaps just not what I was expecting!" Marketing Agency VP, Notting Hill 
"Thank you lee for a very thought provoking and illuminating session." Pensioner, Oxford.

"I would like to thank you for our work together as it really has helped me put things into perspective - despite the "blip" in the middle when I thought I was going nowhere.  I feel positive about my "new life".

"It helped me focus on what key issues are really important to me - some which I had not given enough thought to in the past.  This enabled me to consider what changes I could make which would really make a difference to my outlook on life rather than continue to 'plod along' as I had been doing in the past." Accountant, Maidstone

"Lee is passionate to help you to achieve your aims.  His methods are intelligent, challenging, innovative, fun and subtle. If you are prepared to change for the better in any way, be brave and contact him" Accountancy Professional, Kent

"Thanks for getting me through a huge blockage and helping me arrive at a place I had such difficulty getting to." Management Consultant, Reading 

"Thank you for your wisdom and assistance in helping me to find my way..." Banking Executive, City 
"You are wonderful!" Lawyer, City of London

"When I first started working with Lee I had completely lost my way in life, I felt as if I had nothing to offer. Lee has shown me what I have to offer the world and once again to start feeling good about who I am. The most powerful thing Lee has given me is the ability to say who I am and what I stand for, a great feeling!" Telco Chief Accountant, Sudbury 

"I have taken the real plunge! I have packed up my business and am at college studying ceramics in a 3 year BA … anyway, it feels great to be doing something I have always yearned to do. I have managed to turn myself around." Graphic Designer, SE London 

"Lee's total commitment to my growth has ensured I have found the answers to my deepest questions. He approaches his work with love, enthusiasm and bucket loads of wisdom" Life Coach, Brighton 

"My coaching experience took me on a three month journey which helped me take control of my life to get out of a self-destructive rut.  I am now living a brighter, more hopeful, more fulfilling life." Global Publisher Group Accountant, Wimbledon 

"I really did need your guidance desperately. I feel a lot better about myself now, a lot more positive about life, even after just a few sessions, so thank you!!" Personal Assistant, Holborn

"Thank you for sharing your wisdom with me. It is bringing unbelievable peace in me.  Smiles forever" 23yo, Fulham 
"Fifty something - think you're past it - don’t believe it. My series of fun sessions with Lee, culminated in me getting out my 'comfort zone' and becoming invincible. Prepare to visualize and you will be surprised at how you can make your world happen. Remember “Nothing will work unless you do”. Thanks Lee – recommendations of the highest order”. Business Owner, Banbury 
"Really enjoyed the session, I can see we'll be a fertile combination. Good stuff and thanks very much." Derivatives Trader, Cambridge 

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Life Coaching through a Divorce, Uncoupling and Separation

Arguments, uncertainty, fear, misunderstanding, unheard, sex-less, unromantic, where did our love go...

divorcecoachYou have probably only found your way to this page if you feel like change is needed. Consider the following two very different marriage definitions…

  • Expansive and worth aspiring to -- Healthy relationships are not based on neediness but on the passion and excitement of sharing the journey towards becoming a whole person. (Gawain)
  • Contracted and certain to cause grief -- Marriage is a process in which two individuals renegotiate who they are with respect to each other and the world around them (Berger)

How do you view your significant relationship?  Ready for change? or maybe ready to take your relationship to a new level with Life Coaching for Couples?

Coaching offers ultimate support through big life changes. Probably the biggest change that we may make to our lives is to fix our relationship or to divorce, separate or split up from our partner.

You may find the following case studies of interest. Coaching for the Broken Heart and Returning to work from a broken marriage

Life coaching can be very effective at providing a backdrop of support, certainty, understanding, comfort and strategy while you make such a challenging change. Significant relationship change (choosing to stay-in or out!) is a common reason why clients choose to work with Great Life Coach. Of course there are two sides to the coin, and coaching can help and support people in both sides of a relationship transition.

Happy Relationship or Unhappy Relationship?

Still reading!? Every relationship has rhythms, including a beginning, middle and end!  Life Coaching will get you back in touch with your Self, enabling you to authentically decide if your relationship can be turned into one of common purpose, ease and flow, or if it has come to a natural end and it is time to move on.

Many people have lost themSelves in their relationship. The relationship is no longer a supporting environment of mutual-growth.


Self Help -- Try This

What's your Bottom Line?

If you feel like you have been holding yourself in an untenable relationship situation for too long.  Have you ever thought about understanding what your limits are? What is your Bottom Line?  If your partner crosses that line you must act.

Search your heart and fill in the blanks...

"If my partner did




then I'd feel I'd have to leave the relationship."

"If my partner didn't do




then I'd feel I'd have to leave the relationship."

"If these things were true about my partner --




--- then I'd feel I'd have to leave the relationship."

Share your bottom line with your partner, and at some agreed time ask the question "Has my partner violated my bottom line?".


Does the relationship have a purpose?

What is your common goal? Is that purpose supporting your own maturation or developing purpose?

Coaching will help you decide what action needs to be taken from the centred clarity of yourSelf.  We will of course evaluate if the relationship can be saved and then deploy a supported plan accordingly.  If you decide that it is time to move on, then with your renewed confidence, coaching can help you put together a plan and then execute that plan with unwavering support.  In every case we can design your new life or re-invention and deploy the plan to get you there. Sometimes divorce or separation is explored as a part of a midlife crisis.

There are many relationship books, support services and therapies available to you, and in many cases these may be more appropriate for you than Life Coaching – a choice that only you can know. 

confidendeLife Coaching focuses on engaging with your Self, designing your future and then moving into action to make it happen. It is not a substitute for couples therapy, therapy or legal services, but can act as a supporting agent for you as you use all these other services. If you feel ready to fix your relationship the following book is highly recommended. If it Hurts it isn’t Love, by C. Spezzano.

I also offer life coaching specifically for men or women separately.

If you are looking to change your life situation, if you describe yourself as lost, stuck, AMBIVALENT or caught in a relationship complexity you may find my Happiness Compass E-Course of great value. It's a great way to get started!

Divorcing or Separating from your Spouse or Partner

If you feel you have exhausted wisdom-literature, relationships support services, and couples therapies and are ready to make your life change, then life coaching can help you make that change in the following ways.  Today, say YES! to the next step.

Before the Divorce or Separation

  • Loving your self
  • Loving your relationship
  • Can the relationship be rescued, or do you want out.
  • Exploring if sex/intimacy can return
  • Get in touch and understand your Self
  • Get confident
  • Assertion and setting boundaries
  • Understand your relationship
  • Explore possible options – staying together, therapy, affairs, separation and divorce
  • Overcoming ambivalence -- Should I stay or should I go?
  • Designing a strategy
  • Designing a Conscious Uncoupling
  • Do it!

During the Divorce

  • Loving your self
  • Relaxation and de-stress
  • Personal power and centeredness
  • Confidence
  • Support
  • Preparing for reinvention
  • After the Divorce – The Opportunity of Your New Life
  • Continuing to Love your self
  • Start to Live Juicy
  • Embracing change
  • Reinvention
  • Reconnection with the new you
  • A new career?
  • New friends and lovers
  • Support

Being Divorced or Separated from

  • Continuing to Love your self
  • Get in touch and understand your Self
  • Embracing change
  • Letting go and understanding
  • Relaxation and de-stress
  • Personal power and centeredness
  • Reinvention
  • Reconnection with the new you
  • A new career?
  • New friends and lovers
  • Support

If you are interested in exploring if I can help you create a compelling future...  Get in Touch

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Great Life Coach Blog Articles

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07 December 2011
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You spend money on your car when it gets creaky, your teeth when they get achy and your bodily health when your wellbeing is in jeopardy. How about investing in your happiness m...
20 October 2017
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04 January 2009
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